Im having a cyber affair w/married woman?

Its been going on for 4 months now. We are inseperable. We talk at least 3 hours a day every day. Her husband evan contacted me and begged me to stop and leave his family alone. He is controlling and verbally abusive. She hates him but he controls all the finances. He also makes half a mill a year to my 60k. She doesnt care. She has 3 kids She keeps telling me she will leave him eventually but i dont see her having the nerve. I would dump her no problem if she was anybody else. But we are so perfect together. we get along great!! we have great cam and we just talk and talk. I nevar had a girl in my life i liked so much but its starting to get old. Im realizing i really have nothing.i can count on for the future. Im 43 shes 33. What should i do. Should i continue or try to find someone. Ive looked for 40 years i havent a girl we clicked so perfectly with. She tells me she loves me and we will be together when she can fix it. she sends me love songs every day and she goes crazy if she doesnt speak to me for a few hours as do i. Where does it go from here. I think i know but i need someone who can look from the outside in BTW Im a chicago shes in san fran